Sarah’s Legacy
The greatest
tributes to Sarah’s life were the achievements and character of her son
Yitzchak.
By Rabbi Raphael Wizman
The following article is reprinted with permission from
the Orthodox Union.
The portion of Chayei Sarah recounts the death of our
Matriarch, Sarah, the purchase of a cemetery plot for her, and the marriage of
her son, Yitzchak. Yet, this parshah is called Chayei Sarah, the
Life of Sarah, because, in truth, this portion tells the story of her life more
than of her death.
Avraham and Yitzchak come to eulogize Sarah and to cry for
her. Although the Torah doesn’t tell us what Avraham said in his eulogy, we
know that her ultimate praise is her son, Yitzchak.
Avraham could have recounted the hard life that Sarah
endured--that she was childless for 90 years, that she was held captive by both
Avimelech and Pharaoh, and that she struggled to maintain a household that
included Yishmael and Hagar. But all Avraham had to do was bring Yitzchak to
her funeral.
Yitzchak’s presence was her legacy. His continued loyalty to
the tradition of "Toras imecha” (his mother’s Torah/teaching)would
be her greatest praise. The story of Isaac’s life is, in essence, the story of
Sarah’s life.
"The righteous are considered alive even after
death," our Sages tell us. Sarah achieves this distinction. She raised a
son who would perpetuate the path of G-d, and would willfully sacrifice his
life for the sake of G-d. All future generations merit forgiveness and grace
from Hashem because of this gesture of self-sacrifice and ultimate faith.
Sarah’s determination to raise a future Patriarch of the
Jewish nation explains her concern over Yishmael’s influence. She achieved a
greater level of prophecy than Avraham did, the Midrash tells us. In her
keenness, she knew that Yishmael’s behavior could corrupt Yitzchak and pull him
from the path of Torah.
Sarah merits to have a parshah named after her
because the story of her death reflects the accomplishments of her life. At the
age of one hundred she was as sinless as at the age of twenty and at twenty she
was as wholesome and beautiful as a seven-year-old.
"Kulam Shavin Letovah" All her years were
equally good--despite the suffering she went through. Rabbi Zusha, zt"l
(may his memory be a blessing), used to say that in her greatness, she accepted
her lot in life without complaining. She would always say, "This, too, is
for the good." In her clarity of understanding life is only good. It is
this legacy that we hope to retain and pass on to our children, for all
generations.
Rabbi Raphael Wizman is rabbi of the Young Israel of
Commack in Commack, NY.